Somatic (Life) Coaching

Overview of a Coaching Session

This is to let you know a little bit about what to expect from a body-oriented (somatic) coaching session especially if you have not explored coaching before.

First and foremost; coaching is not therapy. A primary distinction, generally speaking, is that therapy tends to be backward facing or looking at the past, often exploring reasons why we ended up where we are. Coaching is generally future focused and geared toward exploring how we can move forward from wherever we are. 

Classical coaching has a framework within which a body-oriented approach can be practiced. Our coaching session will be an hour long. You and I will spend the first few minutes settling in; perhaps catching up a bit before getting started. The middle part of a session can look like almost anything but often includes the following elements:

  • Goal setting and agenda discussion - Deciding together how best to spend our time together.

  • Assessment of your current situation - Figuring out where we are now, helps define a path forward

  • Exploration and self-reflection - This is where the fun stuff happens and new connections are made!

  • Goal refinement and action planning - Taking any insights and putting them to use.

  • Identifying blocks to forward movement or momentum - This will help clarify strategies for moving forward.

  • Accountability and progress review (If needed).

The last 5 minutes or so will be used to close the session, to wrap things up and say farewell.

While much of our session may be conversational, in body-oriented/ somatic coaching, we have the opportunity to invite our “soma” into the conversation. Our bodies have been with us from the very beginning and hold all that we have experienced and been in relationship to. As such, our bodies are a rich source of information and insight. There is sometimes a need to honor our past experience as it pertains to our current situation, so please know that nothing is “off limits” per se. You and I, however, may find ourselves focusing more on finding clarity about what is happening right now and how it can be explored or experienced in a way that might provide a shift in perspective of felt sense of the situation.

In somatic or body-oriented coaching we lean into the idea that our organism/ animal body is entirely whole as it is and is inherently intelligent. We trust that it operates and organizes in ways that are often below our level of conscious thought or understanding. In somatic coaching, we give ourselves permission to explore and trust this aspect of our knowing. 

Your role is to bring something to our session that you would like to explore, an open mind and heart and a willingness to trust in a process. My role is to provide space and support as you think (and feel and move!) through it. We might utilize a variety of ways to access your inner knowledge about your current conundrum. We may explore movement (or stillness), body sensations as well as thoughts and emotions that may arise.  Anything that presents itself within the session is useful and is welcome. Please know that while I may offer feedback, reflection or observation, my role is one of witness and support person, not a giver of advice. I’m here to accompany you in your process and provide facilitation and support where needed.

I enter into this partnership with you with the understanding that you already possess all the answers. You are the expert about you. Sometimes, questions need to be explored in the presence of another in order for answers to solidify and for them to fully find a home in your life. That’s basically what coaching is.

“Coaching is two people coming together to think about one of them.”

~ Claire Pedric